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Why we shout in Anger? - Think about it!
« on: February 03, 2023, 05:14:44 AM »
"Why We Shout In Anger"

A Hindu saint who was visiting river Ganges to take bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled 'n asked.

'Why do people shout in anger shout at each other?'

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout.'

'But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.' asked the saint

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples.
Finally the saint explained, .

'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.

What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small...'

The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper 'n they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other 'n that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

He looked at his disciples and said.

'So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Do not say words that distance each other more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.'

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Re: Why we shout in Anger? - Think about it!
« Reply #1 on: February 03, 2023, 10:26:15 AM »
Ishaa Sis very nice sharing about anger and the explanation be given  :)

But Enaku oru doubt, sila couple love panum bothu oru highest idathuku poi screaming panuvangale, I love u bla bla athuvum oru vagai shouting tane🤔
Apo athu epdi eduthukirathu coz Saint solraru heart nerukuthale irkum bothu loudness irkathunu

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Re: Why we shout in Anger? - Think about it!
« Reply #2 on: February 03, 2023, 12:15:31 PM »
Hey Mystery sis,
nanum ungala mathiri than vasichen, think panna vechathu so shared it.

Ippo unga kelvikku varen.

Neenga athigam tamil padam parpingalo :D
Tamil Movies base la vechu than my answer thara poren :P
Anthe love couple why anthe highest pointukku poi shout pannuranga I love u or anything else. Avangalindhe echoes kedkurathukku thane. When u shout one time u will get the "conformation" many times back (the echoes). Wonder of Nature is it. (never tried this sis, neenga try pani iruntha experience petti share pannunga sis ;) )
 
Kollywood konjam vilaghi realitykku varuvom.
This kind of shouting, Anger enru sollamudiyama enru  theriyala. Yes, u r shouting but ur state of mind is not in anger. illaiya?

High peak of anger/fight la, shouting la solli parunga "i love u" enru. It will be interesting how the opposite person will react enru. Maybe it will end the fight or the words u have said go meaningless. Both is possible. It depends on how far the hearts are already distanced enru.

Thanks for the question and let me think about this more :)